Seldom Seen

After twelve and a half years a friend of mine, from High School just called me and wants to come visit. I have only seen here a total of maybe 4 times (at most) since the day we graduated. Now all of the sudden she calls me, out of the blue, and wants to come see me. Okay, not a problem, but I really am not sure about this, because not only does she want the friend that she is living with now to bring her to my house this coming Saturday she says that she will be spending the night and I can take her home the next day .... I have no problem with taking her home, but why can't I take her home that same night? The more I think about this plan I don't like it. She never asked if she could stay, she just said she would be staying. Something about this is NOT right. I could see it if she lived hours away but she doesn't its maybe a 30 to 40 minute drive from my house. Maybe I'm just freaking out for nothing. But just have a feeling and I don't like it.

So now what should I do?

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I just got asked THE question... When "T"'s name came up during a phone conversation with my friend "AE" this morning he asked me "What do you call him? Do you call him your boyfriend, acquaintance, friend, lover,..... Or...???"

My answer to this question should have been, "T"... "After all that is his name, so why would I call him anything other then that?"  Okay, I know that would have been my smart ass answer to that type of question. Instead I just said "Well....... (long pause).... I'm not sure yet".

Lets face it after one date, several meetings in town, a few phone calls, and another date planned up for tomorrow evening .... What would you call him? Come on people, be honest, I can't technically call him a boyfriend can I... Or can I?

And why does everything have to have a label anyway? Can't something just be what it is, what ever that may be?

What is  your opinion on how I should answer this question?

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   Why was I out of bed, showered and dressed with coffee sitting in front of my by 5:30 this morning? That is a very good question. I'm not even this awake and ready for the day on days that I have to be to work at 6 a.m. Today is my day off and I have an appointment with the eye doctor this afternoon, but other than that I really don't have a lot to do. Well... there are about a million and one things that I SHOULD be doing but I don't want to. For now I'm going to go turn on the TV and see what has happened in the world overnight. I know I could look it up on the net but I am feeling lazy this morning and don't want to even make the effort to search.

Have a good day everyone!

 

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So, here I sit staring at the computer screen when I should be in another room cleaning. Overall my house is fairly clean right now, but I am going to be getting company on Saturday and would like the house to look really good. The last time he was here things were not up to par. But then I had 20 minutes notice that he was coming too. That should have tought me to keep the dishes clean and not piled in the sink for days at a time... but it didn't. I guess what really scares me is the fact that it didn't even seem to bother him, and it ws HIS idea to come back this weekend... so that should tell me something... he was here to see me not house clean the house is. So, off I go to wash the rest of the dishes that are in the sink from this morning and to pick up all of the dog's toys once again. Speaking of the dogs I also have to see what they are up to as well... they have been too quiet for a while now... that usually means that they are doing something they shouldn't be.

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A lot has changed since I was here back in September. See what happens when I go away and don't check in! Well I'm back... I will try to post more often from now on. I guess when things in my life are going good I just forget to post.

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